#DontWasteYOURTime2016

My tolerance level for BS is very low. If it doesn't feel right...kick them to the curb. If they don't respect you...kick them to the curb. If you feel used...kick them to the curb. My mother always taught me that when a man doesn't want you there's nothing you can do to make him stay. There's nothing you can do to convince him otherwise. But when a man loves you and wants you there's equally nothing you can do to make him leave. When a man loves...my God, ladies it is powerful! It is unparalleled. It is overwhelming! There is no mistaking his devotion. You won't have to question it and it feels SO good. This is not just a sexual attraction. When a man loves you he cares about your soul. He will intercede on your behalf. He will study you. He will listen to you. He will want for you what you can't even imagine for yourself. He will sacrifice for you. He will cleanse you and present you to himself, holy and unblemished. He will see all of your dark places and he will do his best to illuminate them. He will love you when you can't love yourself. See how that sounds? Imagine how that feels!!!! See why God commanded woman to respect her husband but commanded that man LOVE his bride? You can't match that! lol

Choose better for yourself ladies! If he doesn't speak to the Queen in you and you CAN'T speak to the King in him then my God, leave him be. He isn't made for you. He's not the One. And that's OK! It is better to determine that he isn't the one based off of his actions than to wait for him to tell you with his words. It won't feel so good when you wait on the words (believe me I know), but if he isn't a man of integrity you will never hear the words. He will never say them to you. It's ok for YOU to cut the ties. Don't get hung up on this crap about closure. Its unnecessary here.

Guard your heart ladies!

Proverbs 4:23